Implement zen's rephrasing proposal

refs: #17851

config/gitlab-triage/templates/stalled.yml

@@ -108,11 +108,13 @@ resource_rules:
 
               - If you are the author of the work that needs validation: try to
                 find someone who can complete the review in a timely manner.
-              - Else, if you are the reviewer: 
-                - Unassign yourself to make it clear that someone else can
-                  handle it.
-                - Set up whatever self-organizational tool works for you to ensure
-                  you complete the review in a timely manner.
+              - Else, if you are the reviewer, then you are currently the one
+                person responsible for the work of someone else becoming
+                effective or not. Because of that, please either:
+                - unassign yourself to make it clear that someone else can
+                  handle it, or
+                - coordinate with the author of the work and organize yourself
+                  to commit with a certain time frame for handling the review.
 
               Cheers,  
               the robot that avoids a human doing ticket triaging
@@ -181,11 +183,13 @@ resource_rules:
                   Then, if the issue is relevant for a Tails team, bring it to
                   their attention; else, forget it and take care of yourself :)
 
-              - Else, if you are the reviewer: 
-                - Unassign yourself to make it clear that someone else can
-                  handle it.
-                - Set up whatever self-organizational tool works for you to ensure
-                  you complete the review in a timely manner.
+              - Else, if you are the reviewer, then you are currently the one
+                person responsible for the work of someone else becoming
+                effective or not. Because of that, please either:
+                - unassign yourself to make it clear that someone else can
+                  handle it, or
+                - coordinate with the author of the work and organize yourself
+                  to commit with a certain time frame for handling the review.
 
               Cheers,  
               the robot that avoids a human doing ticket triaging